Was it hypnotism? The Patch? The gum? Cold turkey?
What helped you the most? Please share. I’m desperate to stop.
Well, let me tell you my story and let’s see which method you choose. I would really like to know.
I have tried all methods you can possibly imagine to quit smoking and I can say that none have worked until the last one.
I have tried the all tough, all will power method – this lasted for a few weeks and then BANG, here I am again smoking at least 20 a day as soon as I have the "excuse" I am stressed, too stressed not to smoke.
I have tried spirituality, and maybe this would work now but I was too young at that time and when I stopped attending the spirituality sessions – BANG, I am free from those religious fundamentalist and hence I can smoke again (they were not fundamentalist by the way, I just needed the excuse)
I have tried the health approach, I bought DVDs and read a lot about the harmful cigarettes provoke, even made a list of the pros and cons of smoking, which I kept with me all the time, joined a gym and became a gym freak, started having a very healthy diet… but then life is not perfect and after a year of this…BANG the stress of life was my excuse at the time. 1 WHOLE year without smoking and here I was again
The time before last, I went for NRP, the nicotine replacement therapy, and it actually worked, or I though it worked. It takes a lot of will power too but you still feel miserable for some days. I managed to be off cigarettes for 2 and half years. Quite good, I have always thought, I don’t think I will ever smoke again… yes you guessed it, BANG – because of work, I had to move from the UK an live in Continental Europe. During the relocation I was very stressed and on top of the stress naturally provoked by any move I was burgled. This was what I needed – for 2 and a half years I stayed off cigarettes but I would think about smoking not all the time but too often, especially when I was drinking or socialising – perfect excuse, had only 1 cigarette and before I noticed was hooked again.
Finally, I tried "The Easy Way to Stop Smoking", by Allen Carr. Would never think this would change my mindset but the simplicity of the method actually worked. I don’t feel miserable, it was indeed easy and the whole approach was actually completely different from my previous experiences. I recommend the book to anyone that seriously wants to quit smoking.
Don’t know the future but I can tell you that it is the easy method and it actually works in a completely different way. We don’t have to use will power, as Carr tell us to do, as he believes that this will eventually trick us when we feel down and weaker and will lead to cigarettes again.
Note I have nothing to do with the book, so no profit ;-(
However, to Allen: thanks for your book! Thanks for your dedication to the smoker’s cause that ultimately caused your death for passive smoking in late November 2006. I am doing as you asked me to do in your wonderful book, thanking you and spreading the word about your book.
You are right; cigarettes are the biggest scam ever.
Peace
An admirer